Do you want to join this list of moms?

• Melanie Johansson

• Teri  Shields

• Dina Lohan

• Tish Cyrus

• Kris Jenner

What do they all have in common? They are the mothers of some of Hollywood’s biggest stars, and they managed their kids’ careers—at least for a while. Some parents are famous for successfully managing their children’s careers, while others become infamous when their child sues  to remove them as their manager.

Before you decide if you will manage your child’s career, it’s important to understand the role of a manager and what it requires.

When I was a child actor, I had no idea what a talent manager did. Later in my career, I became a manager and was responsible for developing some very successful acting careers, including the work of some of Hollywood’s biggest stars, including Scarlett Johannson and Mira Sorvino.

The  definition of a talent manager is an individual or company who cultivates and guides the professional career of artists in the entertainment industry. The most important word in this definition is guide. Guiding a career means that you can give professional advice and counseling on many aspects of the entertainment industry including:

• Selecting and presenting an appropriate image

• Choosing headshots

• Tweaking resumés

• Consulting on demo reels

• Reviewing scripts

• Securing feedback after auditions and using that feedback appropriately

• Consulting on appropriate team members

• Working closely with agents on role submission and negotiating contracts

• Making connections with casting directors and producers

Working as a manager is a very demanding role.  It requires a deep understanding of the industry, keen organizational skills, marketing savvy, strong communication skills, and the ability to develop relationships with key industry players.  Most parents don’t have the industry knowledge or contacts to be effective managers unless they worked in the industry personally.

Kim Pedell of Zoom Talent Management is a professional talent manager.  When I spoke to her about parents managing their children’s careers, she said: “Managers can be very helpful when giving advice before an audition. Sometimes they have more information because they have already been working on the project or because they know the casting director well. A parent cannot be as objective when giving feedback. It’s also difficult for a parent to not take it personally when their child does not book a job. It’s so important for young actors to do their very best in the room and then forget about it. Often parents become much more invested because of time and sometimes money spent in preparation and it can put pressure on a young actor.“

If you are thinking of managing your child’s career, ask yourself these questions:

• Do you have industry connections and experience?

• Are you able to negotiate contracts knowledgeably?

• Can you separate your emotions from your child’s and help him or her cope effectively with rejection?

• Will you be able to care for your other family members and stay involved with them if you are devoting all your time to career management?

In my experience, the most important role of a parent is be to a parent. You provide an important role for your child entertainer. You can monitor emotions, health, balance, and enjoyment of the industry because you know your child better than anyone else. You can provide support, ensure that your child still has regular childhood experiences, and advocate for your child with other team members. Your love is an anchor that helps child actors cope with the demands of working in an adult world.

So, unless you are an industry insider, my recommendation is that you focus your efforts on being your child’s best parent and advocate. Work with a manager you trust alongside the other members of your child’s team. Your contribution will be extremely important and valuable to your child’s success.  Acting careers can come and go, but your role as a parent lasts forever!